Tonight I rewatched My Big Fat Greek Wedding, which I can’t recall seeing since it was new, in preparation for a screening of My Big Fat Greek Wedding 2 tomorrow night. Here’s how it went down on Twitter:
About to rewatch orig #MyBigFatGreekWedding ahead of screening of sequel tom. I liked it back in the day. Will it hold up? #BigFatRewatch
— MaryAnn Johanson (@maryannjohanson) March 20, 2016
@maryannjohanson I'm from Tarpon Springs. I can verify the Greekness of the original.
— Angry Moderate 2020 (@PaulWartenberg) March 20, 2016
@PaulWartenberg It seemed like every ethnic family: Irish, Italian, Chinese, Jamaican, whatever. As many of my friends verified.
— MaryAnn Johanson (@maryannjohanson) March 20, 2016
Ah, the Windex product placement. #BigFatRewatch
— MaryAnn Johanson (@maryannjohanson) March 20, 2016
Wow, I forgot how dumpy Nia Vardalos is at the beginning of this. Brown is not her color. #BigFatRewatch
— MaryAnn Johanson (@maryannjohanson) March 20, 2016
“It’s useless to dream. Because nothing ever changes.” Ugh. Crap, this is sadder than I remember. #BigFatRewatch
— MaryAnn Johanson (@maryannjohanson) March 20, 2016
I love how the belittlement of a woman is held up for such ridicule, and her finding her confidence is so honest. #BigFatRewatch
— MaryAnn Johanson (@maryannjohanson) March 20, 2016
I can’t help but feel like Andrea Martin thinks she’s appearing in an SCTV sketch that no one else on set is aware of. #BigFatRewatch
— MaryAnn Johanson (@maryannjohanson) March 20, 2016
*sigh* John Corbett *sigh* #BigFatRewatch
— MaryAnn Johanson (@maryannjohanson) March 20, 2016
@maryannjohanson he holds up over time! I've seen the trailer for #2 and 😍
— Christy (@DontYouEvah) March 20, 2016
@DontYouEvah Sure, he looks great in the trailer. The movie itself looks so dreadful it made me wonder if I was wrong liking the original.
— MaryAnn Johanson (@maryannjohanson) March 20, 2016
@maryannjohanson haha! Maybe you'll be surprised 😜
— Christy (@DontYouEvah) March 20, 2016
@DontYouEvah I hope I am! I would prefer to love the movie. :-)
— MaryAnn Johanson (@maryannjohanson) March 20, 2016
Ah! I forgot the dinner-party parade of inappropriate would-be Greek suitors Toula’s horrified dad trots out. Dumb dad. #BigFatRewatch
— MaryAnn Johanson (@maryannjohanson) March 20, 2016
This is the sort of movie we hardly ever see: one in which a pretty great guy nurtures a woman in her personal improvement. #BigFatRewatch
— MaryAnn Johanson (@maryannjohanson) March 20, 2016
#MyBigFatGreekWedding earned $369m worldwide on a $5 million budget. Where are all the imitators? Why did it take 14 years for a sequel?
— MaryAnn Johanson (@maryannjohanson) March 20, 2016
Love how the film makes out like Toula’s brother is so much freer than her, but he’s constrained too, and has to break out. #BigFatRewatch
— MaryAnn Johanson (@maryannjohanson) March 20, 2016
Ian’s parents meeting the in-laws: It’s like the wedding scene in Goodfellas: “And the boys were all named Peter or Paulie…” #BigFatRewatch
— MaryAnn Johanson (@maryannjohanson) March 20, 2016
Toula’s dad: passive-aggressive to the end. Bought her and Ian a house? Nice gift… that lets him dictate where they live. #BigFatRewatch
— MaryAnn Johanson (@maryannjohanson) March 20, 2016
So, #MyBigFatGreekWedding *is* as satisfying as I recall. Not hopeful for sequel, but as always, hope to be wrong about that. #BigFatRewatch
— MaryAnn Johanson (@maryannjohanson) March 20, 2016



















I get this with my book reviews. “Why do you review all these things you hate?” “Because I always hope I’m not going to hate them, it’s a disappointment when I do, and I want to save other people from that same disappointment.”
I think some people genuinely believe that critics are spiteful people who really enjoy tearing apart someone else’s work. But the other critics I know love books and movies. A big batch of new books is still exciting, even if you get hundreds of books a year, and even if you know that a lot of them will disappoint you. Most of the time, writing a negative review just makes me sad. Sometimes I can see the book that the author was trying to write, and that book is absolutely amazing.
Every once in a while, a book or movie really needs to be torn apart (Twilight, Fifty Shades of Grey, The Da Vinci Code), and I’ve occasionally taken joy in attacking it (see my comments here about Double Jeopardy or The Sixth Sense), but more often, I try to avoid that sort of story. I don’t always have that luxury,* but what I really enjoy is finding a great book or movie that’s too strange to get much notice and bringing it to people’s attention. I want them to love it as much as I do.
*I suppose the parallel is: We may not want to think about Donald Trump, but it’s important to talk about him.
And I (and I assume you) aren’t even being professional about this – nobody’s going to come to my blog and say “why haven’t you reviewed the latest thriller that’s on all the bookstalls”, whereas someone coming here has a reasonable expectation of finding something about all the big releases.
But I think we all have in common that we wouldn’t do it if we didn’t love what the medium can do when it’s at its best.
I review books professionally. I write about movies because I enjoy it (and, often, because I enjoy the movies).
MBFGW is one of the only two chick-flick/rom-coms I genuinely like (the other one being “Love Actually”), but like you, when the trailers for the sequel came out, I was so horrified that I wondered if the original actually was a good film, or whether I was just an idiot teenager back then who didn’t know any better. I’m glad to know that the original still holds up okay.
I was way beyond teendom when the first one came out, so I didn’t even have that excuse in my head!